I’ll be honest with you, I gave up alcohol about two years ago. I knew I wanted to get pregnant and I knew that my hormonal makeup plus my age meant it was the best thing to do. Now I’m nine months post-birth, I’m breastfeeding and in recovery mode, so I’m still not drinking and I can’t say I miss it!
But, I’m not here to tell you that you have to do the same or to make you feel bad for having a glass of wine.
You can still have a glass of wine!
One big difference between the Flo Living protocol and the other diets and lifestyles out there is that I don’t believe in perfection. Instead I am all about each of us understanding how our body works so that we can make the best decisions to support our health and then make good course corrections along the way.
It’s not about choosing between “being good” or “having fun” – there’s a middle way that allows you to do both. It’s about taking microactions to balance out your indulgences before they hit and have a negative impact. You can be good AND have fun! I tend to take the 80/20 approach and I encourage my Flo ladies to do the same – you’re allowed to have lapses, what matters is what you do about them.
Because it’s all relative in the end – you have to take your own hormonal symptoms, their severity, and your overall diet into account when you make the choice to have a drink or two. If you’re at the very beginning of your healing journey then, just like with sugar, you are better off going cold turkey for two months at least and seeing how that affects you. If you’re trying to improve symptoms that are related to estrogen dominance then drinking alcohol frequently will slow your healing down.
You have to ask yourself how quickly do I want to feel better and how long do I want the recovery process to take?
In the spirit of body awareness and self observation, I’m going to fill you in on how alcohol impacts your hormones and then provide some useful survival strategies for cutting back and balancing out the effects on your body.
How alcohol impacts your hormones
- Women process alcohol at a much, much slower rate than men. We retain all fluids for longer, in fact, and we metabolize the chemicals in alcohol at a slower rate. This means the physical impact of alcohol is much stronger and faster for women than for men.
- Drinking alcohol forces the liver to use your store of antioxidants and vitamin C to break it down, which leaves you vitamin and mineral deficient. This is especially problematic if you know you are already dealing with a deficiency.
- Alcohol raises your estrogen levels which worsens symptoms of PCOS, fibroids and endometriosis – and any estrogen-dominant hormonal health issue
- Although we often reach for a drink because we want it to make us feel happy or sexy, alcohol is actually a depressant. Drinking alcohol drains the adrenals and makes you feel more tired and down.
- Alcohol disrupts your blood sugar function – so if you’re dealing with blood sugar imbalance as a part of your hormonal health issues, and many women are, this is something to be aware of. Often we will find ourselves making unhealthy food choices when we drink and the day after, which further exacerbates the problem.
What to do to offset alcohol consumption (a.k.a. my recovery protocol for a big night out)
It’s Saturday night and you have a big night out with the girls planned! You think avoiding alcohol completely is unrealistic, but you want to be health conscious and make good choices while still having fun. Here’s how to do it –
Before you leave
- At lunchtime take a good B vitamin complex (so you can recover more quickly from dehydration), a dose of inositol (a nutrient that helps detoxify your liver), and vitamin C ester (which will combat the stress on your cells).
- Make a decision to only have two glasses of wine (red or rose are the best for you as white wine holds too much sugar).
- Eat a good meal before you go out or instead of just meeting your friends for drinks, meet a little earlier for dinner and drinks. Take a tip from the Europeans – don’t drink on an empty stomach. Choose a meal with a little fat in it (although nothing fried) as it will slow down the glucose uptake.
When you’re out
- See if you can have your wine served to you in a carafe with a bottle of seltzer water too. That way your two glasses of wine will magically multiply into four with the additional of the seltzer. One carafe then lasts you throughout the dinner. It feels more abundant and indulgent, and yet it’s still just two glasses!
- If you’re at a bar – order some guacamole or nuts for the table for those good fats. If you’re heading to a restaurant – Japanese food like sushi is a great choice for balancing out the effect of red wine.
- Remember – you don’t need to check out of your body to have fun. You can enjoy your friends with a glass of club soda in your hand! Even times when you’re at a bar can become part of your self-care routine – connect with loved ones, touch, dance your heart out to your favorite song. Giving over to the joys of life with a clear head is so rewarding and makes you feel truly alive!
When you get home
- Take another B vitamin complex to restore those vitamins your liver needs to break down the alcohol.
- Have a big glass of water with electrolyte enhancer (I like the Electro-Mix from the makers of Emergen-C).
The next day
- Have another B vitamin complex and take a drink of warm water with lemon to flush your system.
- Drink coconut water to replenish your electrolytes.
- Have three 8 ounce glasses of my favorite detoxifying juice – combine a handful of spinach, 4 stalks of cucumber, half a bunch of cilantro, one-third a bunch of parsley, half a lemon with rind, half a green apple, and a small carrot in a blender or juicer. So refreshing!
- Take a hatha yoga class to calm your adrenals. The twists involved will help detoxify your internal organs and prevent a backup of estrogen.
- Committing to a fresh start that morning and following these steps will prevent you binging on unhealthy foods and minimize the hormonal disruption from the alcohol.
Always remember, that once you have the right information about how your body really works, you can start making health choices that finally start to work for you! You can do this – the science of your body is on your side!
to your FLO,
Alisa
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I get so moody when I drink that its not even fun anymore. I always end up cranky and in a tiff with my boyfriend. Mainly when I drink wine and liquor. When I drink beer it seems to be OK but I still get really tired and tend to want to go home and go to bed early. Thoughts? How can I end this cycle?
I’m the exact same… not sure why, but I would like to find out. Any thoughts?
I would also like to know would also like to know how I can stop wanting it at 5pm on a Friday after work, for some reason I feel I need that glass of wine to relax, even knowing what the consequences may be.
Lesley, I felt exactly as you did re the 5pm glass of wine (but I didn’t just fancy it on a Friday!) My substitute is soda water with a dash (or two, I’ve now developed a taste for it) of apple cider vinegar. Make sure you use a tasty one, i.e. Bragg’s, and put it in a lovely wine glass too- this is a must!
Give it a week and you will find this is a great substitute, I couldn’t care less about having that 5pm glass of wine now (and we have alot of wine in our house, my husband works at a winery!)
Me, too. I wasn’t wanting to admit it for the longest time, but red wine makes me a monster. I recently read that wine is high in an amino acid called tyramine, which can cause a quick hypertension. It’s linked to migraines, mostly, but I found some studies suggesting it causes anger/irritation. Aged cheese and smoked meats and a few other foods also are high in tyramine. I am going to start paying attention to how I feel when I eat those. Maybe this is finally solved for me. http://cupofjo.com/2015/04/red-wine-makes-me-mean-2/
Does this mean tinctures are also off limits. Daily, I have been taking Vitex tincture to balance hormones and milk thistle tincture to help my liver. I guess i never considered the alcohol in these products to be problematic because they are infused with the medicinal goodness of these herbs. What are the alternatives? I have a hard time with pills.
Thank you so much for this information, Alisa! I find it’s much easier to stick to healthy habits when I understand why I’m doing it. 🙂 Your scientific approach is much appreciated.
One question… this post is talking about the occasional night out with the girls, which is something that might happen once a month. Does that mean we should ideally limit our alcohol intake to that frequency?
My family is European and I grew up on a vineyard, so having one glass of organic red wine with dinner most nights feels very natural and healthy to me. It’s not about getting drunk, it’s about enjoying the pleasures of a good meal with family or friends. Where do you stand on that kind of drinking (1 glass, 3-5 nights per week)? Thank you!
How much alcohol consumed will worsen PCOS symptoms? Would one beer, four days a week do it? Or are you talking about drinking heavily, daily?
I am struggling to stop drinking. Anybody else have this? How did you stop? I drink out of boredom.
I stopped drinking about 3 months ago and my menstrual cycle seems to be finally lengthening out. It had been averaging every 18 – 21 days and the last cycle it was 24 days. I know I’m low in progesterone and I don’t think the daily beer or two was helping on that front. Also I was getting so I craved that one beer really badly and that made me uncomfortable, also given that there is a tendency towards alcoholism in my family. The first 2-3 weeks were kind of rough to give it up, but after that it’s been easy. Sometimes I’ll have a glass of kombucha if I’m at home and my husband is having a beer, but now I’m okay with just water. Or I’ll put a small dash of Moonshine digestive bitters in a glass of water (I know, it has alcohol, but we’re talking a tiny amount) and that tastes pretty good. If I’m at a party I might have a glass on tonic water as a treat. It can be tough to make a change, but it can be done! xo
This was so incredibly helpful. I’ve been searching for info about my hormones everywhere and I found this to be so simple, straightforward, get packed with good information. Thank you so much!! Saving this.
Helpful. Thank you.
Stop drinking alcohol, easy peasy lemon squeezy.
I appreciate the tips on how to deal with the consequences of drinking. Will definitely try that!
The article was good, but it’s so interesting to me, that the author asks her audience to engage and let her know what you think about the article, and then we never hear from her again, even though people ask various (and very good, IMO) questions and ask for author’s advice.
Yeah. That is true. Drinking alcohol affects the internal being of the body. Make sure you are balancing your lifestyle well before its too late.
This was Amazing advice! And it worked! I am high estrogen trying to minimize my intake but the B Complex works!! And my heart doesn’t pound out of my chest!!!
Also let me suggest ( For anyone who’s heart beats harder when they drink at night) I have been using, “Lily-of the Valley, Stomach Formula”. This saved my life!! I thought I had heart issues when it was actually gut, acid reflux, Gerd! And adding the complex just leveled me out along with your suggestions!!!!
Thank you for your wonderful article and God bless us women!!!